Thursday 9 August 2012

She needs Respect...Join our hands!



“She wears short skirts, so she is a slut.”


“She hangs out with guys, so she is characterless.”


“She is a widow, so she has to live a confined life.”


Ever wondered how these remarks have been possible to ruin a woman’s life! If this wasn’t enough, imagine the restrictions and violence inflicted on women in the Indian society. Or we should rather say, by the Indian men! It’s ironical in a country where Goddesses are praised in every home, still the fairer sex undergoes humiliation and are victims of injustice.


In a population, running  up to billions, no one lends an ear to the silent cry of the women. May be, that’s probably one of the reason we frame them as Vulnerable Sex! If she respects the men in her life and follows the societal norms, that doesn’t make her weak.


Often regarded as an epitome of innocence and forgiveness, the society has always been taking undue advantage of a woman’s good and pardoning nature. Everyday, a naive girl is teased, some other is molested or raped, some woman falls prey to domestic violence. To name the prejudice imposed on women-Innumerable!


We wonder what thought process is carried in our milieu that we portray women as inferior objects. India has witnessed women who fought for freedom, headed the country, made us proud on the international circuit, but still behind our brains we have a notion that women are nothing but ‘sex symbols’ and ‘reproduction machines’. These words might sound awful, but it’s a reality in most parts of the country, including the metro cities.


We say, imparting modern education and westernization has made the conditions better than the previous generations. Women can walk freely, enjoy their lives, do whatever they want. Even then, crime rates are sky high these days, most of them which are forced on women. The orthodox sections of the society curse the modern lifestyle of women for the same.


Rather than putting restrictions on women, why don’t we kill that thought in mind which provokes us to frame women as inferior objects! Why her freedom and way of enjoying her life let her become a victim of someone’s lust? Why her silence lets you disrespect her? Why should she bear your violence, when she renders all her life to you!


There can’t be a possible answer to the above hard-hitting questions. But we, at Project Maa Behen are trying to seek answers. We are determined to decode the prevailing attitude and pave way for a woman to let her find respect in society and bring back her dignity. We, a bunch of amateur men, along with our friends from the opposite sex, are trying to do something, which has been a struggle ever-Let women breath in open air! Let them gain respect! Let not her fall prey to violence and injustice! And this time, we will not back down. We are gritty to bring about a change, rather a REVOLUTION!


The next step......


Initiated as an online campaign, we had a burgeoning success by garnering a lot of support from the netizens. The first outdoor campaign, named “Be a Brother’,  was done at a city college,, by urging the male folks to extend their hand towards a female friend for her to tie him a Rakhi, so that her ‘brother’ come to her rescue when she is in dire need. The college crowd welcomed this programme with a warm hug and cheerful smiles and enthusiastically supported and promoted it.




The second outdoor campaign, “Make a Move’, has been taken to the streets of the major city suburbs, happening between 5th and 9th August. The further details about this campaign shall be disclosed in the future posts. So stay tuned to know more!

Love,

Project Maa Behen.


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